Tuesday 11 February 2014

10 PILLARS OF A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

If it’s going to work and better for both of you, then the onus lies on both of you to observe certain principles in life. A healthy relationship is not just a wishful relationship being lived in the abstract world but through conscious efforts.

One of the best ways to be happy and be loved is to make someone happy and feel loved and you in turn will receive abundance of such. Pillars are very important in the foundation stages of every building. The stronger the pillar, the stronger the building to withstand every storm and negative pressures against its existence.  

A healthy relationship must not be left to chance and be expecting the best to emanate like magic. If there is anything you can do to touch the softest part of someone, the try these 10 simple pillars each day.

1. LOVE

The Special Feeling That Makes You Feel, All Warm And Wonderful. 


2. RESPECT:
Treating Others As Well As You Would Like To Be Treated.

3. APPRECIATION:
To Be Grateful For All The Good Things Life Has To Offer.

4. HAPPINESS:
The Full Enjoyment of Each Moment, A Smiling Face.

5. FORGIVENESS:
The Ability To Let Things Be Without Anger.

6. SHARING:
The Joy Of Giving Without Thought Of Receiving.

7. HONESTY:
The Quality Of Always Telling The Truth.

8. INTEGRITY:
The Purity Of Doing What’s Right, No Matter What.

9. COMPASSION:
The Essence of Feeling Another’s Pain, While Easing Their Hurt.

10. TRUST and PEACE:
The Reward for Living the 10 Most Important Things."

If there is any additional thing you will do to make your relationship healthy, then go ahead and do them. The little things at times matter than the bigger ones. You should be glued to these list but scan through and find out more pillars that can make your relationship stand the test of time. 

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